The Life Coaching Institute’s
tools are uniquely effective at helping its clients achieve what
they most want in life.
We subscribe to the fact that Life is a Game and that you have
many choices with regard to the type of games that you can play.
Sometimes those choices are good and sometimes they’re not
so good. The bad choices are the one’s that cause us to
lose in life. We’ll do our best to steer you away from those.
One of the primary challenges in the game of life is to find and
follow your purpose and align it accordingly with your goals.
The following dialogue between the Cheshire Cat and Alice from
the book “Alice In Wonderland” best exemplifies our
company’s purpose.

Alice: “Which way should I go from here?”
Cheshire Cat: “That depends a good deal
on where you want to get to.”
Alice: “I don’t much care where so
long as I get somewhere.”
Cheshire Cat: “Then it doesn’t matter
which way you go as you’ll surely get somewhere.”
Unfortunately this is how it is for most people, organizations
and even governments of countries; they don’t have an agreed
upon direction to get to where they intend to go.
Click the Game of Life Checklist to determine the types of games that you want to play. There are two services that we deliver: “Foundations of Brilliance - Consulting” and “What’s your True Measure of Success - Seminar” which align your purpose with your worthy ideals.
The Difference Between Success & Failure...
Definition of Success: Getting, achieving or attaining what you want.
Definition of Failure: Not getting, achieving or attaining what you want.
Only you can decide the degree of success you will choose to have. Will it be mediocre, fair, good or great? It is totally up to you!
Your degree of success is totally based upon the level of commitment that you are willing to make to your ideals. (No one ever achieved anything of real worth without a high degree of commitment; not Tiger Woods, Michael Phelps (the highest Olympic Gold Medal Winner, Apple’s Steve Jobs, etc.)
The greater the commitment—the greater the demand for the knowledge needed to achieve your goal. This concept is without exception. Example: John Smith decides that he no longer wants to be a mediocre husband and that he no longer wants to be in a condition of doubt regarding his relationship. He is smart enough to know that this will ultimately lead to a break up unless he changes. He needs to review and change the level of commitment that he has to the relationship.
One’s commitment has two major components; a) knowing what you want to specifically have that you don’t have and b) correctly knowing what you have to do
in order to achieve that which you now want to have.
One’s level of commitment will drive one’s demand for knowledge.
A great example of how the above works is Tiger Woods. At the age of only 5 he decided that he was going to be the worlds greatest golfer. That level of commitment was the fuel that he needed to learn everything he could about the game of golf. He learned and then practiced thousands of times what he needed to achieve that goal. The same is true about improving a relationship.
The Life Coaching Institute will help you find and apply the knowledge needed to achieve your endeavor. As a result, you will develop an extraordinary ability to predict the correct amount of effort needed to achieve your objectives.
In the case of John Smith this involved the assimilation of a new set of viewpoints found in our “technology of relationships” which helped him bridge the gap between a mediocre husband to that of a great husband.
All of the truly great men and women of our times have done it this way... Increased commitment, more knowledge, thus achieving more prediction to achieve the desired goal.
Note: This same process of increased commitment and increased knowledge and increased application of the knowledge is what equals success in any endeavor.
Our Mission: Help our clients find and follow their purpose in the game of life. To prioritize and align their respective goals with that purpose and then help them stay on track and attain those goals in the time frame of their choosing.
Our intention: Help YOU be successful in the area of life that you have your attention on.
Our Pledge: To take you from your existing scene in life to your ideal one!
Our Two Areas of Expertise: Personal Success Training and Creating Successful Relationships.
We're Personal Success Trainers and
Relationship Experts who can help you achieve what you most want
in life. Our team consists of Ben Kugler, Bernard
Percy and Drew
Johnston; known for their ability to inspire through humorous,
yet powerful presentations as they help people understand how
they can improve their relationships.
Allow us the honor to be of service to you.

Ben Kugler
Founder and CEO of The Life Coaching Institute
Accomplishments and Achievements:
Since graduating from the University of Illinois he has owned and operated several companies – the largest having over 1,400 employees. When he worked for New York Life he was the first agent with no prior insurance experience in its 149 year history to earn the highest sales award in his first year. Throughout his business career he has raised hundreds of thousands of dollars for worthy causes and continues to serve on the Board of Directors of a number of non–profit organizations that annually help thousands of young people lead better lives.
In the last ten years he has been a speaker and consultant in the areas of business and family. Among his most cherished accomplishments are having a large family with his wife Judy; consisting of seven children, five daughters– in–law, and eleven grand children. He’s very proud of the fact that all of his children lead very productive lives and are all contributing in different ways to make the world a better place to live.
As a result of the above experience and being
a post graduate student “in the philosophy of life”, he has compiled
and edited 3 derivative books: The Natural Laws of Parenting,
Parenting Essentials, and How to Handle Difficult Situations
with your Child. A fourth co-authored book, 50 Secrets
that Guarantee How to Get a Job – for Young Adults is being
released this fall. The book he is currently working on, What's Your True Measure of Success is a must read for those who really want to know what their true
level of success is. This is not some theety–weety analysis, but
a hard hitting, direct to the point evaluation of your real worth.
It’s real because it is based upon the value you place on what
is truly important in your life.
His greatest desire is to see millions of people find and achieve
their true measure of success in life.

Bonnie E. Paull
Life Coach Bonnie Paull has devoted her professional years to teaching, mentoring and counseling adults, ages 16-86. She is a Professor Emeritus (retired with honors) from a California Community College where she was an award-winning teacher of English and Humanities for 40 years. After retiring from the classroom, Ms. Paull went on to become the Dean of Students and Curriculum in a teachers' institute in the Midwest from which she retired in 2009.
She has presented many seminars and has authored numerous books, articles and poetry. Among these are: Will the Real Teacher Please Stand Up?, Winning with Grammar, Parts One and Two and The Crooked Journey, the true story of a woman's fight to overcome illness.
She is currently doing what she loves the best—assisting adults to discover their true purpose and direction in order to pursue schooling, professions, volunteer work or hobbies that are fulfilling and life enhancing for them. Here is what some of her clients have to say about their work with her:
"I've found once again a purpose I'd given up on. And this wasn't rekindled with a rousing pep talk, an inspirational speech or any momentary uplift. Rather, thanks to Bonnie's calm and patient work with me, I was able to make the breakthrough in this area. I am now able to clearly look at and decide and know for myself the direction I choose." –MA
"Since working with Bonnie, I came to realize that WOW, I do have an ideal scene to go for! This is a great process to get me to that point! " –PW
For further information, contact Ms. Paull at: bonniepaull3@gmail.com
or call 314-583-5993
Please feel free to contact us for any and all questions you may have :
133 Candy Lane, Palm Harbor, FL. 34683
Ph: 727-447-4147
BenKugler@gmail.com